{"id":349,"date":"2025-05-28T05:45:42","date_gmt":"2025-05-28T05:45:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.adlington.fr\/index.php\/2025\/05\/28\/my-sister-was-found-dead-then-i-discovered-her-search-history-and-the-online-world-that-had-gripped-her-internet-safety-the-guardian\/"},"modified":"2025-05-31T06:53:17","modified_gmt":"2025-05-31T06:53:17","slug":"my-sister-was-found-dead-then-i-discovered-her-search-history-and-the-online-world-that-had-gripped-her-internet-safety-the-guardian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.adlington.fr\/index.php\/2025\/05\/28\/my-sister-was-found-dead-then-i-discovered-her-search-history-and-the-online-world-that-had-gripped-her-internet-safety-the-guardian\/","title":{"rendered":"My sister was found dead. Then I discovered her search history \u2013 and the online world that had gripped her | Internet safety | The Guardian"},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>if suicide is a self-directed, injurious behaviour, how far can a person be judged to be self-directed when acting under the influence of a purposeful online community? And is a person really choosing freely, Walton asks, when algorithms, which continued to show Aimee content relating to self-harm, power a darkening circle of interest and exposure? \u201cThat\u2019s where I have a difficulty with calling it suicide,\u201d Walton says. \u201cMy feeling is that Aimee was groomed into making the decision.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p><head><meta charset=\"UTF-8\"><\/head><\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\" style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 0.75rem; padding: 0px; border: 0px; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 400; font-width: inherit; font-size: 1.0625rem; line-height: 1.4; font-family: GuardianTextEgyptian,\" guardian text egyptian web georgia serif font-size-adjust: inherit font-kerning: font-variant-alternates: font-variant-ligatures: font-variant-numeric: font-variant-east-asian: font-variant-position: font-variant-emoji: font-feature-settings: font-optical-sizing: font-variation-settings: vertical-align: baseline word-break: break-word color: rgb overflow-wrap: caret-color: letter-spacing: normal orphans: auto text-align: start text-indent: text-transform: none white-space: widows: word-spacing: rgba text-decoration:>The forum itself was founded by two men, according to a New York Times investigation, who run a number of websites for \u201cincels\u201d. Wanting to retrace her sister\u2019s last steps, Walton visited the forum herself. \u201cA lot of the posts are basically saying, \u2018Your family don\u2019t care about you\u2019, \u2018You should do it\u2019. \u2018When are you going to catch the bus?\u2019 is a phrase they use.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"dcr-16w5gq9\" style=\"box-sizing: border-box; margin: 0px 0px 0.75rem; padding: 0px; border: 0px; font-style: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 400; font-width: inherit; font-size: 1.0625rem; line-height: 1.4; font-family: GuardianTextEgyptian,\" guardian text egyptian web georgia serif font-size-adjust: inherit font-kerning: font-variant-alternates: font-variant-ligatures: font-variant-numeric: font-variant-east-asian: font-variant-position: font-variant-emoji: font-feature-settings: font-optical-sizing: font-variation-settings: vertical-align: baseline word-break: break-word color: rgb overflow-wrap: caret-color: letter-spacing: normal orphans: auto text-align: start text-indent: text-transform: none white-space: widows: word-spacing: rgba text-decoration:>Walton believes that what takes place on the forum \u201cis a type of radicalisation into an extreme action that people otherwise might not even have considered.\u201d She is haunted by the possibility that the man who was with Aimee when she died was \u201cliving out a sick fantasy as an incel who wants to see a young and vulnerable woman end her life\u201d.<br \/>\n\u2014 Read on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/technology\/2025\/may\/28\/my-sister-was-found-dead-then-i-discovered-her-search-history-and-the-online-world-that-had-gripped-her\">www.theguardian.com\/technology\/2025\/may\/28\/my-sister-was-found-dead-then-i-discovered-her-search-history-and-the-online-world-that-had-gripped-her<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>if suicide is a self-directed, injurious behaviour, how far can a person be judged to be self-directed when acting under the influence of a purposeful online community? And is a person really choosing freely, Walton asks, when algorithms, which continued to show Aimee content relating to self-harm, power a darkening circle of interest and exposure? 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